Ladies, what exactly do we really want?
What women want?
To be respected
To be loved
To be cared for
To feel important
To be wanted
To be appreciated
To be taken serious
To be treated equally to man
To be recognized as a human and not an object of affection
Tell me is that too much to ask? Well on a man’s point of view he would say “YES” it might seem as if we ask a lot but let me just put it this way, all the points you see up there can be summarized in two phase. The first one is listening and the second one is learning.
Listening: women love it when you pay attention to what they have to say, they feel like you value their opinion and they point of view. We like it when you TRY to understand how we feel, at least it shows us that you care and it also shows that you are there whenever we need to talk
Learning: I know this is one of the hardest part for men, but hey all I can say is it doesn’t hurt to TRY. Trying to learn how women are is very hard, for we change our moods like we change our hairstyles.
Listening and learning are two important things in a relationship. When you listen you have a clear understanding of things and it will be easy for you to learn with no problem. Communication is the key to better relationship or friendship.
One thing for ladies please try and do the same for the man and don’t let your hormones boil to the high point before trying to understand what’s going on. As for you gents I would like to dare you, chose a day, tell your woman that you want to listen to all her request and let me know how it went down.
Let me know what you think.
What women want?
To be respected
To be loved
To be cared for
To feel important
To be wanted
To be appreciated
To be taken serious
To be treated equally to man
To be recognized as a human and not an object of affection
Tell me is that too much to ask? Well on a man’s point of view he would say “YES” it might seem as if we ask a lot but let me just put it this way, all the points you see up there can be summarized in two phase. The first one is listening and the second one is learning.
Listening: women love it when you pay attention to what they have to say, they feel like you value their opinion and they point of view. We like it when you TRY to understand how we feel, at least it shows us that you care and it also shows that you are there whenever we need to talk
Learning: I know this is one of the hardest part for men, but hey all I can say is it doesn’t hurt to TRY. Trying to learn how women are is very hard, for we change our moods like we change our hairstyles.
Listening and learning are two important things in a relationship. When you listen you have a clear understanding of things and it will be easy for you to learn with no problem. Communication is the key to better relationship or friendship.
One thing for ladies please try and do the same for the man and don’t let your hormones boil to the high point before trying to understand what’s going on. As for you gents I would like to dare you, chose a day, tell your woman that you want to listen to all her request and let me know how it went down.
Let me know what you think.
I hope you hear my heart speaking
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